"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"The average number of sexual partners for men in a lifetime is 7. For women, it is 4

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slaog said:
When reading the title of the thread most people presume its the mean. Where did it say the 'median' in the title?
5 seconds with google will get a link to the study, which is done by the National Center for Health Statistics and the summary states median 4 and median 7, women and men respectively. Median is almost always used because it's a better representative value than mean in most non-Gaussian distributions of data.

To come up with your broken-ass argument, one would have to assume the good people at the National Center for Health Statistics hired a bunch of scientists whose grasp of math is worse than a bright fifth grader to do the analysis. Then those idiots published a paper for peer review with horribly broken math.

If that seems likely to one, then I'd say one is of diminished mental capacity.


There have been some solid arguments against the numbers but yours was not one of that group.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What's the average for men that are good with women, attractive women, and then all others? 7 & 4 might be sound numbers for those who aren't desirable or that lack game.
 

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bigjohnson said:
5 seconds with google will get a link to the study, which is done by the National Center for Health Statistics and the summary states median 4 and median 7, women and men respectively. Median is almost always used because it's a better representative value than mean in most non-Gaussian distributions of data.

To come up with your broken-ass argument, one would have to assume the good people at the National Center for Health Statistics hired a bunch of scientists whose grasp of math is worse than a bright fifth grader to do the analysis. Then those idiots published a paper for peer review with horribly broken math.

If that seems likely to one, then I'd say one is of diminished mental capacity.


There have been some solid arguments against the numbers but yours was not one of that group.

In my last post I've shown how you have made yourself look like an idiot. :D


Your behaviour is seriously AFC. Wanting to be right, argueing and insulting people over figures and getting worked up over it. You're also trying to get an ego boost by trying to make others look below you but thats not working and its real AFC behaviour.


You need to ask yourself WHY this is happening. You've been a member of SS since feb 07 and you're still acting AFC. If you need any advise in understanding it better and breaking out of that mentality just ask. :up:
 

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slaog said:
In my last post I've shown how you have made yourself look like an idiot. :D

Not wanting to be right, it's being right and knowing it. There's nothing average about me that matters ;)
 

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Nutz said:
What's the average for men that are good with women, attractive women, and then all others? 7 & 4 might be sound numbers for those who aren't desirable or that lack game.
I think the data also included people of all ages (you should check if you care), so (1) some are not finished playing humpity hump and (2) some came from a more conservative time. The NCHS study was very specific; What is the number of sex partners for Americans age X-Y.

Not "lifetime"* partners or whatever, it's simply walk out your door, look at a woman, if she's typical, she's been ridden by 4 guys. Obviously statistics do not REALLY predict individual outcomes, but you get the idea.

*As in, not predicting. It's so far in their lifetime IIRC.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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