The Art of dealing with rejection holistically. Good stuff.

[Travel memoir21]

I think the art of dealing with rejections whether it be from women, a career or people in a holistic manner is very important. For one it helps you bounce back quickly, move on and start taking more productive actions to bounce back. It could be as easy as having a God centered meditation session right after you arrive back home from a long tiring day or making a conscious effort to go the gym, then listen to some spiritual music and then calling up a friend to vent after you've gone through something you did not like emotionally. I think it's more or less capturing that community vibe and surrounding yourself with likeminded people who means well and encourage you and having a list of people you can talk to, to clear the cobwebs in your head every month or so.

 

[Clockwerk50]

How long does it take to do that? Isn’t it just faster to move on and forget about it 5 seconds after the rejection happens?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You get some mental toughness and you just move on. Why are people so mentally fragile these days? It's honestly kind of pathetic.

I mean people really need to "deal with it"? As of it send them into a mental tailspin?

Holy cow...no wonder why Gen Z is lost.

 

[SW15]

Holy cow...no wonder why Gen Z is lost.

OP isn't a member of Gen Z. OP is an earlier Millennial.

Both the Gen Y/Millennial generation and the Generation Z generation are 2 lost generations.

Gen Z seems to be worse off than Millennials were at a similar age 12-15 years ago.

 

[CoolWave1331]

No such thing as universally attractive brother. Not every single woman will like you, even if you are "on point". If you understand and maintain this perspective, rejection (when it happens) is no big deal. If is happening ALL THE TIME (as in you have no successes / positive interactions with the opposite sex) this is a bad sign and means a transformation is in order. Will be different for each person - easiest way to attract attention is working out (if you don't) and/or wardrobe change - this is part of overall presentation. Attractiveness score will go UP and you wil be lady killer Problem is then you start getting unwanted attention from like highs school girls & gays LOL

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

If you're going to go home and meditate after every failed cold approach, it will take forever to reach your milestone goals.