"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the "APPROACH"

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My last three approaches were actually with a good opener. And I early started with the "****y and funny". Then they found I was too arrogant. When do you guys start the C&F-line? I mean C&F is a very good thing to flirt with her but when do you guys start with it?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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.....and its not the problem of beeing too ****y. Trust me on that one: my C&F is not too ****y. I was using it for a half year during dates and it's good. What do you think? Should I start later with it during the approach?
 

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first you need to get out your seduction notebook (check):down:

then you need the DJ bible loaded on a pda or pocket pc so that you can reference it when you get stuck (check):down:


Then you need to get your own style and make sure that your game is congruent with who you are ( NO CHECK!!!!!!!!!) :up:

Just kidding....:rock:
 

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maybe they were already attracted. If you are using alot of C&F when they are already attractive can cause the whole set to go backwards not forward.
 
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