"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the "APPROACH"

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My last three approaches were actually with a good opener. And I early started with the "****y and funny". Then they found I was too arrogant. When do you guys start the C&F-line? I mean C&F is a very good thing to flirt with her but when do you guys start with it?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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.....and its not the problem of beeing too ****y. Trust me on that one: my C&F is not too ****y. I was using it for a half year during dates and it's good. What do you think? Should I start later with it during the approach?
 

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first you need to get out your seduction notebook (check):down:

then you need the DJ bible loaded on a pda or pocket pc so that you can reference it when you get stuck (check):down:


Then you need to get your own style and make sure that your game is congruent with who you are ( NO CHECK!!!!!!!!!) :up:

Just kidding....:rock:
 

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maybe they were already attracted. If you are using alot of C&F when they are already attractive can cause the whole set to go backwards not forward.
 
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