"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My last three approaches were actually with a good opener. And I early started with the "****y and funny". Then they found I was too arrogant. When do you guys start the C&F-line? I mean C&F is a very good thing to flirt with her but when do you guys start with it?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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.....and its not the problem of beeing too ****y. Trust me on that one: my C&F is not too ****y. I was using it for a half year during dates and it's good. What do you think? Should I start later with it during the approach?
 

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first you need to get out your seduction notebook (check):down:

then you need the DJ bible loaded on a pda or pocket pc so that you can reference it when you get stuck (check):down:


Then you need to get your own style and make sure that your game is congruent with who you are ( NO CHECK!!!!!!!!!) :up:

Just kidding....:rock:
 

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maybe they were already attracted. If you are using alot of C&F when they are already attractive can cause the whole set to go backwards not forward.
 
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