Everyone I try to lead women, it goes nowhere
Everytime I sit back and take it easy and be calm and go with the flow, they can’t get enough.
Only my experience.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The answer to most of you women problems is.........
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Everytime I sit back and take it easy and be calm and go with the flow, they can’t get enough.
Only my experience.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Serenity
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@Glassguy
The root problem is needing a woman to feel good in life. I'm not about to say your way is wrong, but it has one massive downside.
Spinning plates satisfies the need, it does not remove it. It works fine as long as you keep spinning plates, but what are you without your plates? Same really goes for finding "the one" (for the record I don't believe in a "one"), it satisfies the need, but what are they without?
I once thought I couldn't be happy without women, I considering going down the road you're going, but wasn't satisfied with the vulnerabilities of it. It didn't solve the root of the problem, thinking I need women.
No man actually needs a woman. A man may want women or a particular woman, but need he does not. I severed the link between women and happiness, it's two independent aspects in my existence. Whether I'm in a relationship, spinning plates or do none of it, my happiness, confidence and self-esteem remain largely unaffected. Women do not bring happiness, I know this will sound cliche but it's true, happiness comes from within. I don't need a source, I am the source. This to me is freedom.
Again, not saying your way is wrong. It's great that it's working out for you, I'm just saying what if it stops working out?
The root problem is needing a woman to feel good in life. I'm not about to say your way is wrong, but it has one massive downside.
Spinning plates satisfies the need, it does not remove it. It works fine as long as you keep spinning plates, but what are you without your plates? Same really goes for finding "the one" (for the record I don't believe in a "one"), it satisfies the need, but what are they without?
I once thought I couldn't be happy without women, I considering going down the road you're going, but wasn't satisfied with the vulnerabilities of it. It didn't solve the root of the problem, thinking I need women.
No man actually needs a woman. A man may want women or a particular woman, but need he does not. I severed the link between women and happiness, it's two independent aspects in my existence. Whether I'm in a relationship, spinning plates or do none of it, my happiness, confidence and self-esteem remain largely unaffected. Women do not bring happiness, I know this will sound cliche but it's true, happiness comes from within. I don't need a source, I am the source. This to me is freedom.
Again, not saying your way is wrong. It's great that it's working out for you, I'm just saying what if it stops working out?
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I've had times in my life with ZERO women. I have a lot of different hobbies and friends for a reason.....I can be just as happy doing my thing with no women as I am with 5.
The key is being able to self sufficiently provide your own happiness. Surprisingly a lot of men really struggle with this. Thus they think they NEED a woman and become beta.
I never have a scarcity mindset. Ever. Whether it be no chicks or 6 blowing me up.
A rotation and spinning plates doesnt change that.
I've had times in my life with ZERO women. I have a lot of different hobbies and friends for a reason.....I can be just as happy doing my thing with no women as I am with 5.
The key is being able to self sufficiently provide your own happiness. Surprisingly a lot of men really struggle with this. Thus they think they NEED a woman and become beta.
I never have a scarcity mindset. Ever. Whether it be no chicks or 6 blowing me up.
A rotation and spinning plates doesnt change that.
Atom Smasher
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Leadership isn’t a series of acts. It is a mindset, a projection of who you are inside, and it is massively attractive to women.
Women crave a leader like men crave sex. If a man’s attempts at leadership are failing, there is definitely something not right about that man’s idea of what leadership is.
Leadership appears outwardly as a relaxed guidance of those who are in his vicinity, and a relaxed self-assuredness. People in the orbit of such a man naturally submit to his leadership. It is as natural as water finding its own level.
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Women are sneaky, yesterday I went out to a bar with a dance floor that had an event. I was out alone on my lone warrior mission. As I was standing around and bobbing my head to the music, I noticed this attractive skinny thick blonde come in with a Mexican dude. They stood around me talking to each other and exchanging pleasantries with the patrons they knew at the bar. At first glance I thought they were together. Moments later her actually boyfriend had come in and they were affection towards each other the whole night. When the blonde her boyfriend and the Mexican guy were standing around talking I could see her eyes making subtle attractions towards the Mexican guy.
Later that night as the bar closes up I head outside to call my uber. Out front the Mexican dude is in the car with the white guy in the front seat and the cute blonde in the back. The boyfriend gets out the car runs back in to bar. Guess what happened his girlfriends is leaning over looking seductively at the Mexican dude smoking a cig. She crawls to the front seat and sits right next to him lol! The boyfriend comes back down and sits in the back. She was just staring looking at the Mexican dude you could feel the sexual tension. That's how much I trust women
Later that night as the bar closes up I head outside to call my uber. Out front the Mexican dude is in the car with the white guy in the front seat and the cute blonde in the back. The boyfriend gets out the car runs back in to bar. Guess what happened his girlfriends is leaning over looking seductively at the Mexican dude smoking a cig. She crawls to the front seat and sits right next to him lol! The boyfriend comes back down and sits in the back. She was just staring looking at the Mexican dude you could feel the sexual tension. That's how much I trust women
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not disputing you one bit here buddy.
But you forgot to add that every time you sit back and only got good results for a limited time only.
Ever wonder why ?
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mrgoodstuff
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Maybe the problem is in the "try". Women dont need you to prove you are the man. They either see you that way or not.
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That's cuz they're too stupid to understand things.
Any team with girls on it is a losing team lol.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrgoodstuff
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They are not stupid. They have a way they work.
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A stupid way they "work" that only "works" for brief periods before it implodes due to their stupidity.
mrgoodstuff
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Well i dont know. We as men cant count on no one but ourselves. So we cant complain.
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Right, but if you are Black (i.e. which I'm assuming is the OP because of his avatar, correct me if I'm wrong) and you have one Becky go south on you in your rotation then you could end up in jail if she says a false report against you with the police. The police and judicial system will take her word against yours and lynch you over nonsense. Are you worried about dealing with Beckies? Do other ethnics take you on or is it mainly ghetto Black girls?
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1. What does the OP have to do with race?
2. So you're asking if this man, and potentially any other black man on the forum, is worried about a white girl 'turning on him' because he has a rotation? Does that even sound like it's worthy of police attention?
3. lynch...? C'mon, my G...
4. 'ghetto black girls' ... why do they need to be 'ghetto' just because they are black? Further, a 'ghetto' is a place. Not an adjective and it should not be used as such.
Come correct next time.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrgoodstuff
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A hood girl will slit his throat before any other race. Dating black for a well to do brother is no safer.
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No I'm not black. I'm white.
I'm a big Ohio State football fan. That's not me in the avatar.
Race has nothing to do with it bro. Not sure where your post came from but I dont agree with it.
lamath
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For some ppl this turns into chicken and the egg conundrum.
Sadly not all men can get a rotation, so they have more women problem aka desperation.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.