You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Definitely not being picky...Blue Phoenix said:Was this lame or am I being picky???
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Those stuff isn't for everyone, it's all coming from the same place though self-amusement...honestly I wouldn't try that unless I'm taking it to the extreme as far as amusement goes.Blue Phoenix said:This sad opener sounds really lame.
Lol , looks like you're the only one that havent heard this opener . All girls know it .MacAvoy said:Snow Plowman, I've tried googling the Who Lies more opener and I only got that you 'simply ask the question, who lies more men or women? Is that all there is to the opener?
What do you do after that? I'm just curious because I never CA, I score all my women from my social circle.
“Hey guys, quick question...Who lies more...men or women?”
---(Girls talk for a bit, then you cut them off.)
“Ok, I can only stay a sec, my friends are waiting, but who cheats more, guys or girls?”
---(Girls talk for a bit, then you cut them off.)
“I was waiting to get a haircut a few weeks ago, reading one of those women's magazines, and it says that girls lie more and cheat more...is that true??”
---(Girls talk about topic. Go into your next routine.)
Is this for real? LOL!!!Snow Plowman said:But wait there are more retarded openers...
- Me going up to a chick saying "um...uh...uh...hi FUK THAT I"M USING MY ROUTINE STACK who lies more men or women". Then I proceed with more retarded stuff and my wing actually comes in saying "Hey which routine stack should I use." and I tell him do who lies more and he does it which they of course say they already heard and then he stacks an opener another wing we roll with uses. The whole time were right in front of them.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hahaha...why would I joke...Luke Skywalker said:Is this for real? LOL!!!
Yeah, you better forget about cold approaches and focus on your social circle instead. With stuff like that, I now understand why you made this thread.