That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Definitely not being picky...Blue Phoenix said:Was this lame or am I being picky???
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Those stuff isn't for everyone, it's all coming from the same place though self-amusement...honestly I wouldn't try that unless I'm taking it to the extreme as far as amusement goes.Blue Phoenix said:This sad opener sounds really lame.
Lol , looks like you're the only one that havent heard this opener . All girls know it .MacAvoy said:Snow Plowman, I've tried googling the Who Lies more opener and I only got that you 'simply ask the question, who lies more men or women? Is that all there is to the opener?
What do you do after that? I'm just curious because I never CA, I score all my women from my social circle.
“Hey guys, quick question...Who lies more...men or women?”
---(Girls talk for a bit, then you cut them off.)
“Ok, I can only stay a sec, my friends are waiting, but who cheats more, guys or girls?”
---(Girls talk for a bit, then you cut them off.)
“I was waiting to get a haircut a few weeks ago, reading one of those women's magazines, and it says that girls lie more and cheat more...is that true??”
---(Girls talk about topic. Go into your next routine.)
Is this for real? LOL!!!Snow Plowman said:But wait there are more retarded openers...
- Me going up to a chick saying "um...uh...uh...hi FUK THAT I"M USING MY ROUTINE STACK who lies more men or women". Then I proceed with more retarded stuff and my wing actually comes in saying "Hey which routine stack should I use." and I tell him do who lies more and he does it which they of course say they already heard and then he stacks an opener another wing we roll with uses. The whole time were right in front of them.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hahaha...why would I joke...Luke Skywalker said:Is this for real? LOL!!!
Yeah, you better forget about cold approaches and focus on your social circle instead. With stuff like that, I now understand why you made this thread.