"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The aftermath of a really good date... What next?

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So I met this chick online (girl #1), we went to play pool yesterday, we hit it off real well... We actually ended up playing for about 4h before we realized what time it was.

When we left I walked her back home and we ended up making out in front of her porch (I know, typical Hollywood movie, right!? Makes me sick too)

Now here's the thing: Since I actually started getting into the dating scene, she's the only girl I've met that I don't want to **** up things. Prior girls I didn't mind if things didn't work out, or if I ended up sleeping with them and nothing more, but she's cool, I want to see if she can keep this up or if it was only a good first date impression.

I was supposed to have another girl (girl #2) that I slept with at my house on Sunday to cook for her (I'm vegan, I always get asked that, it's inevitable hahah), but all of a sudden I'm not too interested in that... Sex is fairly easy to get, but quality girls are rarer. Should I simply cancel with girl #2 and invite girl #1 instead, or would it be too soon considering I saw her yesterday? I'm out of town from Tuesday to Friday so I'd rather act before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No don't cancel...don't fvck this up by focusing too much on one girl at first until at least after u have banged her a few times...you will get oneitis and lose your edge.
 
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You're thinking about exclusivity after one date? No, I don't think so!

Always keep your other options open until it is clear that both you and Girl #1 want to become exclusive.

Remember, if she's also trying to make a good impression, she will be reinforcing her good points and trying to hide the bad ones.
Take your time, find out if she really does tick enough of your boxes.
 
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Well I'm seeing girl #3 on Wednesday, so i'm not putting all my eggs in one basket, but I see what you guys mean, good point!

Thanks!
 
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A good first date with a girl you met online means absolutely nothing. Half the time you'll never see them again no matter how well you think it went. Carry on like normal.. I promise she isn't signing away her other options just for you either.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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