The aftermath of a really good date... What next?

[Shivastorm_88]

So I met this chick online (girl #1), we went to play pool yesterday, we hit it off real well... We actually ended up playing for about 4h before we realized what time it was.

When we left I walked her back home and we ended up making out in front of her porch (I know, typical Hollywood movie, right!? Makes me sick too)

Now here's the thing: Since I actually started getting into the dating scene, she's the only girl I've met that I don't want to **** up things. Prior girls I didn't mind if things didn't work out, or if I ended up sleeping with them and nothing more, but she's cool, I want to see if she can keep this up or if it was only a good first date impression.

I was supposed to have another girl (girl #2) that I slept with at my house on Sunday to cook for her (I'm vegan, I always get asked that, it's inevitable hahah), but all of a sudden I'm not too interested in that... Sex is fairly easy to get, but quality girls are rarer. Should I simply cancel with girl #2 and invite girl #1 instead, or would it be too soon considering I saw her yesterday? I'm out of town from Tuesday to Friday so I'd rather act before.

 

[marmel75]

No don't cancel...don't fvck this up by focusing too much on one girl at first until at least after u have banged her a few times...you will get oneitis and lose your edge.

 

[Cremasta]

You're thinking about exclusivity after one date? No, I don't think so!

Always keep your other options open until it is clear that both you and Girl #1 want to become exclusive.

Remember, if she's also trying to make a good impression, she will be reinforcing her good points and trying to hide the bad ones.
Take your time, find out if she really does tick enough of your boxes.

 

[Shivastorm_88]

Well I'm seeing girl #3 on Wednesday, so i'm not putting all my eggs in one basket, but I see what you guys mean, good point!

Thanks!

 

[the_stig]

A good first date with a girl you met online means absolutely nothing. Half the time you'll never see them again no matter how well you think it went. Carry on like normal.. I promise she isn't signing away her other options just for you either.