I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
sometimes even djuans lose their confidence, they get hit and they need to get reanimated, they need some wise words, some words that keep 'em on track. everyone is vulnerable, everyone loses their mind once in a while and commit mistakes. if u wanna ban afcs do so and keep us in ignorance or made us a favour oh master djs and enlighten us with your wisdom.
The way the forum should operate is like this:Originally posted by The_Shezzler
AMEN
BAN THE AFC
WHO IS WITH ME!!!!????
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is the problem right here. Until there's a solution to this, nothing's going to change. Until there's a way to move an AFC to run these two down, rip them apart, and bathe in their blood, he's going to stay an AFC.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Lazy and Scared
thats easy, he gets his woman to hold it for him while he stands and smokes a cigarOriginally posted by Porky
does a real DJ sit down or stand up to pee?
good old idealism...Originally posted by aftershock
Good points Shezz.
The way the forum should operate is like this:
- A few master DJs posting with a wealth of knowledge
- Many others who are DJs and capable
- Some reforming AFCs who know some stuff, but still need a kick up the arse
- A few AFCs who just found the site
They should progress up the ladder so to speak. I don't mind a few AFC questions, as us DJs should help the lesser beings, to help them become DJs, and then in turn they can help etc. If AFCs are the minority, then they will in turn become DJs.
But I agree that there are too many AFCs to operate like I've said above. It's sad.
I've just thought of a proposal that I'll put in a new thread...
explain what it meansIt is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.