Yesterday, i realized what a huge advantage we have over most men. I've always known it, but it didn't really sink in until yesterday, when i got a very clear, vivid image of what that advantage translates into in real life. I was having Korean at a restaurant with a buddy of mine, when i decided to call up a girl. Long story said, she ended up pissing me off and i hung up on her. I took a deep breath, gave my friend a pat on the back, said "wish me luck buddy," got up, walked all the way to the other end of the restaurant, stopped beside a gorgeous Indian girl who was sitting at one of the tables and asked if i could join her. Its funny how she was watching me walk in her direction and acting completely disinterested, yet completely lit up the moment she realized i was actually there for her. The transformation was magnificent to watch. The ability to do things like that is our advantage. That's power. Thirty seconds after one girl acts in a way that displeases us, we've got the option of having her replaced with a beautiful 27-year-old law student.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The advantage
- Thread starter Krassus
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
one day, maybe not today, maybe not tomorra......I too shall possess this ability krassus has described to us
why?but you can't do this in the longer run.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
DrSousuave is a compulsive negative poster. Pay no attention.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
maybe she wont light up like the first time she saw him but if he has a postive aura and makes people feel good about themselves then it practicly works in the same way on the long run.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
He's taken over in Giovanni Cassanova's absenseOriginally posted by dearsappho
DrSousuave is a compulsive negative poster. Pay no attention.
alphawolfx
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i actually don't mind drsosuave, i don't buy into his frame, i know what's up with my life, even if he wants to put it on a negative spin...
but i'm not sure the other guys at sosuave will have as strong a frame as me, so they should probably put drsosuave on their "ignore" list, so they won't even SEE his posts.
but i'm not sure the other guys at sosuave will have as strong a frame as me, so they should probably put drsosuave on their "ignore" list, so they won't even SEE his posts.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't know if I agree with this. An aura of confidence can be on you at all times if that's what you want. You just have to have the right mindset, and the girls will definately notice this about you. Usually they'll say something like "there's just something about you" or whatever, usually that's them noticing your confidence level.You just came across in that one moment very confident and your aura shined through to her. This is OK for pickups, but you can't do this in the longer run.
I can definately say that whenever I go out with intentions of meeting girls, my confidence is brimming.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
since the combined viewers on this forum and ASF are so microscopically small, you can imagine the power, the potential that this knowledge has over the rest of the human species...
rock on!!!
rock on!!!