Yesterday, i realized what a huge advantage we have over most men. I've always known it, but it didn't really sink in until yesterday, when i got a very clear, vivid image of what that advantage translates into in real life. I was having Korean at a restaurant with a buddy of mine, when i decided to call up a girl. Long story said, she ended up pissing me off and i hung up on her. I took a deep breath, gave my friend a pat on the back, said "wish me luck buddy," got up, walked all the way to the other end of the restaurant, stopped beside a gorgeous Indian girl who was sitting at one of the tables and asked if i could join her. Its funny how she was watching me walk in her direction and acting completely disinterested, yet completely lit up the moment she realized i was actually there for her. The transformation was magnificent to watch. The ability to do things like that is our advantage. That's power. Thirty seconds after one girl acts in a way that displeases us, we've got the option of having her replaced with a beautiful 27-year-old law student.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The advantage
- Thread starter Krassus
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
one day, maybe not today, maybe not tomorra......I too shall possess this ability krassus has described to us
why?but you can't do this in the longer run.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
DrSousuave is a compulsive negative poster. Pay no attention.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
maybe she wont light up like the first time she saw him but if he has a postive aura and makes people feel good about themselves then it practicly works in the same way on the long run.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
He's taken over in Giovanni Cassanova's absenseOriginally posted by dearsappho
DrSousuave is a compulsive negative poster. Pay no attention.
alphawolfx
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i actually don't mind drsosuave, i don't buy into his frame, i know what's up with my life, even if he wants to put it on a negative spin...
but i'm not sure the other guys at sosuave will have as strong a frame as me, so they should probably put drsosuave on their "ignore" list, so they won't even SEE his posts.
but i'm not sure the other guys at sosuave will have as strong a frame as me, so they should probably put drsosuave on their "ignore" list, so they won't even SEE his posts.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't know if I agree with this. An aura of confidence can be on you at all times if that's what you want. You just have to have the right mindset, and the girls will definately notice this about you. Usually they'll say something like "there's just something about you" or whatever, usually that's them noticing your confidence level.You just came across in that one moment very confident and your aura shined through to her. This is OK for pickups, but you can't do this in the longer run.
I can definately say that whenever I go out with intentions of meeting girls, my confidence is brimming.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
since the combined viewers on this forum and ASF are so microscopically small, you can imagine the power, the potential that this knowledge has over the rest of the human species...
rock on!!!
rock on!!!