"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thats what i call a sticky situation

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Ok prom is coming up. The plan was that i was going to drive my firend, his date, and my friends little sister (our prom is for freshman through seniors). Then for irrelevant reasons my friend and his date can't ride with me. So now im just giving his sister a ride. This is where the situation gets sticky...

She is 14! almost 15, and still a freshmen. I am an 18 year old senior. Im not much of a talker and im worried it is going to be a bit awkward during the 40 minute drive.

But this is not what i am worried about most. She is very attractive, cool, and has been flirting with me for the past weeks. What if we really hit it off?

The bright side is that it gives me material for giving my friend ****.

So the problem is that How do i keep it from getting awkward during the drive, and what if i start liking this girl? I need wisdom!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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danny987 said:
Ok prom is coming up. The plan was that i was going to drive my firend, his date, and my friends little sister (our prom is for freshman through seniors). Then for irrelevant reasons my friend and his date can't ride with me. So now im just giving his sister a ride. This is where the situation gets sticky...

She is 14! almost 15, and still a freshmen. I am an 18 year old senior. Im not much of a talker and im worried it is going to be a bit awkward during the 40 minute drive.

But this is not what i am worried about most. She is very attractive, cool, and has been flirting with me for the past weeks. What if we really hit it off?

The bright side is that it gives me material for giving my friend ****.

So the problem is that How do i keep it from getting awkward during the drive, and what if i start liking this girl? I need wisdom!
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Listen to yourself man. You're 4 YEARS older than this chick. Thats pretty illegal in I think every state. But, you'd only be in trouble if she claimed you raped her or somethin like that. Idk man the decision is up to you. I personally would not go for it, simply cuz theres so many more girls out there that are closer to my age, and cuz you're already going to the prom so they'll be more chicks there closer to your age as well. Not only that but my little brother is a freshman and it would just feel fvckin weird if I got with a girl his age. Anyways, the choice is yours on this one.

And if shes into you it shouldnt be hard to keep a conversation going.
 
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The title of this thread was so misleading...
 
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