"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thats what i call a sticky situation

danny987

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Ok prom is coming up. The plan was that i was going to drive my firend, his date, and my friends little sister (our prom is for freshman through seniors). Then for irrelevant reasons my friend and his date can't ride with me. So now im just giving his sister a ride. This is where the situation gets sticky...

She is 14! almost 15, and still a freshmen. I am an 18 year old senior. Im not much of a talker and im worried it is going to be a bit awkward during the 40 minute drive.

But this is not what i am worried about most. She is very attractive, cool, and has been flirting with me for the past weeks. What if we really hit it off?

The bright side is that it gives me material for giving my friend ****.

So the problem is that How do i keep it from getting awkward during the drive, and what if i start liking this girl? I need wisdom!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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eaglez1177

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danny987 said:
Ok prom is coming up. The plan was that i was going to drive my firend, his date, and my friends little sister (our prom is for freshman through seniors). Then for irrelevant reasons my friend and his date can't ride with me. So now im just giving his sister a ride. This is where the situation gets sticky...

She is 14! almost 15, and still a freshmen. I am an 18 year old senior. Im not much of a talker and im worried it is going to be a bit awkward during the 40 minute drive.

But this is not what i am worried about most. She is very attractive, cool, and has been flirting with me for the past weeks. What if we really hit it off?

The bright side is that it gives me material for giving my friend ****.

So the problem is that How do i keep it from getting awkward during the drive, and what if i start liking this girl? I need wisdom!
Listen to yourself man. You're 4 YEARS older than this chick. Thats pretty illegal in I think every state. But, you'd only be in trouble if she claimed you raped her or somethin like that. Idk man the decision is up to you. I personally would not go for it, simply cuz theres so many more girls out there that are closer to my age, and cuz you're already going to the prom so they'll be more chicks there closer to your age as well. Not only that but my little brother is a freshman and it would just feel fvckin weird if I got with a girl his age. Anyways, the choice is yours on this one.

And if shes into you it shouldnt be hard to keep a conversation going.
 

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The title of this thread was so misleading...
 
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