"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thats what i call a sticky situation

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Ok prom is coming up. The plan was that i was going to drive my firend, his date, and my friends little sister (our prom is for freshman through seniors). Then for irrelevant reasons my friend and his date can't ride with me. So now im just giving his sister a ride. This is where the situation gets sticky...

She is 14! almost 15, and still a freshmen. I am an 18 year old senior. Im not much of a talker and im worried it is going to be a bit awkward during the 40 minute drive.

But this is not what i am worried about most. She is very attractive, cool, and has been flirting with me for the past weeks. What if we really hit it off?

The bright side is that it gives me material for giving my friend ****.

So the problem is that How do i keep it from getting awkward during the drive, and what if i start liking this girl? I need wisdom!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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danny987 said:
Ok prom is coming up. The plan was that i was going to drive my firend, his date, and my friends little sister (our prom is for freshman through seniors). Then for irrelevant reasons my friend and his date can't ride with me. So now im just giving his sister a ride. This is where the situation gets sticky...

She is 14! almost 15, and still a freshmen. I am an 18 year old senior. Im not much of a talker and im worried it is going to be a bit awkward during the 40 minute drive.

But this is not what i am worried about most. She is very attractive, cool, and has been flirting with me for the past weeks. What if we really hit it off?

The bright side is that it gives me material for giving my friend ****.

So the problem is that How do i keep it from getting awkward during the drive, and what if i start liking this girl? I need wisdom!
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Listen to yourself man. You're 4 YEARS older than this chick. Thats pretty illegal in I think every state. But, you'd only be in trouble if she claimed you raped her or somethin like that. Idk man the decision is up to you. I personally would not go for it, simply cuz theres so many more girls out there that are closer to my age, and cuz you're already going to the prom so they'll be more chicks there closer to your age as well. Not only that but my little brother is a freshman and it would just feel fvckin weird if I got with a girl his age. Anyways, the choice is yours on this one.

And if shes into you it shouldnt be hard to keep a conversation going.
 
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The title of this thread was so misleading...
 
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