Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"That's cool, but is it on you? lol" she asked

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I was talking on text to this girl and basicly, the convo moved to sex. She told me about some sexual things she likes etc.

So, basicly I told her, I go to her city alot and we should hang and "drink" sometime.

She said "that's cool, but is it on you? lol"

I haven't responded to that question yet.

Should I say "maybe, if you reward me lol" and sort of not completely answer the question, or should I tell her no and she should pay for half ? I don't think the latter would work too well.

What should I say to her question?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ryannath said:
I was talking on text to this girl and basicly, the convo moved to sex. She told me about some sexual things she likes etc.

So, basicly I told her, I go to her city alot and we should hang and "drink" sometime.

She said "that's cool, but is it on you? lol"

I haven't responded to that question yet.

Should I say "maybe, if you reward me lol" and sort of not completely answer the question, or should I tell her no and she should pay for half ? I don't think the latter would work too well.

What should I say to her question?
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"maybe, if you reward me lol" - beautiful response IMHO
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No, actually that seems a little like you're buying your way in. I'd go with the clothes thing
 
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