"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"That's cool, but is it on you? lol" she asked

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I was talking on text to this girl and basicly, the convo moved to sex. She told me about some sexual things she likes etc.

So, basicly I told her, I go to her city alot and we should hang and "drink" sometime.

She said "that's cool, but is it on you? lol"

I haven't responded to that question yet.

Should I say "maybe, if you reward me lol" and sort of not completely answer the question, or should I tell her no and she should pay for half ? I don't think the latter would work too well.

What should I say to her question?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ryannath said:
I was talking on text to this girl and basicly, the convo moved to sex. She told me about some sexual things she likes etc.

So, basicly I told her, I go to her city alot and we should hang and "drink" sometime.

She said "that's cool, but is it on you? lol"

I haven't responded to that question yet.

Should I say "maybe, if you reward me lol" and sort of not completely answer the question, or should I tell her no and she should pay for half ? I don't think the latter would work too well.

What should I say to her question?
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"maybe, if you reward me lol" - beautiful response IMHO
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No, actually that seems a little like you're buying your way in. I'd go with the clothes thing
 
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