“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"That's cool, but is it on you? lol" she asked

ryannath

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I was talking on text to this girl and basicly, the convo moved to sex. She told me about some sexual things she likes etc.

So, basicly I told her, I go to her city alot and we should hang and "drink" sometime.

She said "that's cool, but is it on you? lol"

I haven't responded to that question yet.

Should I say "maybe, if you reward me lol" and sort of not completely answer the question, or should I tell her no and she should pay for half ? I don't think the latter would work too well.

What should I say to her question?
 

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ryannath said:
I was talking on text to this girl and basicly, the convo moved to sex. She told me about some sexual things she likes etc.

So, basicly I told her, I go to her city alot and we should hang and "drink" sometime.

She said "that's cool, but is it on you? lol"

I haven't responded to that question yet.

Should I say "maybe, if you reward me lol" and sort of not completely answer the question, or should I tell her no and she should pay for half ? I don't think the latter would work too well.

What should I say to her question?
"maybe, if you reward me lol" - beautiful response IMHO
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No, actually that seems a little like you're buying your way in. I'd go with the clothes thing
 
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