"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"That's cool, but is it on you? lol" she asked

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I was talking on text to this girl and basicly, the convo moved to sex. She told me about some sexual things she likes etc.

So, basicly I told her, I go to her city alot and we should hang and "drink" sometime.

She said "that's cool, but is it on you? lol"

I haven't responded to that question yet.

Should I say "maybe, if you reward me lol" and sort of not completely answer the question, or should I tell her no and she should pay for half ? I don't think the latter would work too well.

What should I say to her question?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ryannath said:
I was talking on text to this girl and basicly, the convo moved to sex. She told me about some sexual things she likes etc.

So, basicly I told her, I go to her city alot and we should hang and "drink" sometime.

She said "that's cool, but is it on you? lol"

I haven't responded to that question yet.

Should I say "maybe, if you reward me lol" and sort of not completely answer the question, or should I tell her no and she should pay for half ? I don't think the latter would work too well.

What should I say to her question?
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"maybe, if you reward me lol" - beautiful response IMHO
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No, actually that seems a little like you're buying your way in. I'd go with the clothes thing
 
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