"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That Incredible Feeling

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It's 1:30 AM here,

I opened the windows and sat on the edge looking out in the dark.

I was observing the beautiful dark sky, watching the stars.

Reached for my pack of cigarettes and lighted myself one.

While I was smoking and watching the beautiful stars I completely relaxed and started doing my affirmations.

I was just saying I LOVE BEING ME, I LOVE MY LIFE ...

After that I just went to the first star I laid my eyes on and said I love this star, then I took a look on the other star and said I love this star and I keep going on.

By the time I stopped smoking my cigarette and got myself back to earth since I totally flowed away in loving the stars I got this crazy feeling.

I felt like my body was really heavy, I felt like I'm floating in space, I felt total love for everything there is, I loved every single molecule on this world.

I loved it all and that feeling of slight heaviness was so farking awesome. I couldn't believe it. An explosive feeling in my entire body. Totally at ease, at peace, IN LOVE with everything.

I don't know what it was.. I'm still feeling bits of it and since my experience only half an hour has passed.

I had to write about this. It was just such an awesome experience. I can't believe what I have gone through this night.

Truly awesome, LOVE-LISTIC haha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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Ive been there before too, man. I was driving back from the town i go to school, i had chilled with some friends, this badass chick, and i found an apartment. I was on the highway and it was the nicest day and the mountains and everything looked AMAZING! The music i was listening to made it a euphoric moment. It gave me the chills and i was the most relaxed i had ever been.
 

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thats what nicotine does to u myfriend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you forgot the part where you snorted a line of crack. Add that at the beginning right after "it's 1:30AM here" then you're good. :up:
 

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iFEEL said:
I ain't doing no chemistry dudes :)
I was just kidding man, but actually all the feeling you felt were really just chemical reactions going off inside your brain regardless of drugs or natural euphoria. Hopefully you can achieve that intense feeling of bliss again...I'd kill to experience something like that jsut once in my life haha
 
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