Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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That Incredible Feeling

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It's 1:30 AM here,

I opened the windows and sat on the edge looking out in the dark.

I was observing the beautiful dark sky, watching the stars.

Reached for my pack of cigarettes and lighted myself one.

While I was smoking and watching the beautiful stars I completely relaxed and started doing my affirmations.

I was just saying I LOVE BEING ME, I LOVE MY LIFE ...

After that I just went to the first star I laid my eyes on and said I love this star, then I took a look on the other star and said I love this star and I keep going on.

By the time I stopped smoking my cigarette and got myself back to earth since I totally flowed away in loving the stars I got this crazy feeling.

I felt like my body was really heavy, I felt like I'm floating in space, I felt total love for everything there is, I loved every single molecule on this world.

I loved it all and that feeling of slight heaviness was so farking awesome. I couldn't believe it. An explosive feeling in my entire body. Totally at ease, at peace, IN LOVE with everything.

I don't know what it was.. I'm still feeling bits of it and since my experience only half an hour has passed.

I had to write about this. It was just such an awesome experience. I can't believe what I have gone through this night.

Truly awesome, LOVE-LISTIC haha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ive been there before too, man. I was driving back from the town i go to school, i had chilled with some friends, this badass chick, and i found an apartment. I was on the highway and it was the nicest day and the mountains and everything looked AMAZING! The music i was listening to made it a euphoric moment. It gave me the chills and i was the most relaxed i had ever been.
 

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thats what nicotine does to u myfriend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you forgot the part where you snorted a line of crack. Add that at the beginning right after "it's 1:30AM here" then you're good. :up:
 

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iFEEL said:
I ain't doing no chemistry dudes :)
I was just kidding man, but actually all the feeling you felt were really just chemical reactions going off inside your brain regardless of drugs or natural euphoria. Hopefully you can achieve that intense feeling of bliss again...I'd kill to experience something like that jsut once in my life haha
 
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