Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"That guy right there thinks you are hot"

Babnik

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I did this to my friend now and I am pissed.

He was checking out a girl in a cafeteria and thought she was real hot and I was leaving so I went up to her and said "That guy right there thinks you are hot *wink*" and I THOUGHT that it would make her think he is a wuss because he wouldn't approach, but INSTEAD she approached HIM!

Would you say in most cases a girl WOULD see the guy as a wuss if he was introduced like that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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..why were you trying to hurt your friends game?

It's kind of funny it backfired on you.. and in all honesty you deserved it. But in any case.. I think it just depends on the chick. In some cases you might have just shot gunned his chances with this girl..
 

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NFC said:
..why were you trying to hurt your friends game?

It's kind of funny it backfired on you.. and in all honesty you deserved it. But in any case.. I think it just depends on the chick. In some cases you might have just shot gunned his chances with this girl..
Well, he is a guy I know, not a real friend friend. I kind of WANTED to kill his game.

I do this sometimes, make other guys look pathetic. One day I may get my ass kicked for that.

But I don't feel bad about it... I mean if I want it, why should HE get it?
 

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I try to avoid doing that.. hating on people's game isnt really DJ like. Just play your cards right.. and show the chick how fly you are WITHOUT dissing on people. I think that is more DJ-like IMO.
 

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Wow you stocked up on haterade and it back fired on you! Sorry you got what you deserved. I don't have many rules in my game but one of them is never hate on anybody. It's very uncouth and makes me look...well like a hater. And nobody likes a hater.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You got what you deserve. And so did your friend. :D Everybody wins.
 

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Why is there any reason to be upset? Your FRIEND got approached by a hottie, and you helped. That seems like lots of reasons to be happy and proud. It didn't cost you a dime.
 

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Babnik said:
I did this to my friend now and I am pissed.

He was checking out a girl in a cafeteria and thought she was real hot and I was leaving so I went up to her and said "That guy right there thinks you are hot *wink*" and I THOUGHT that it would make her think he is a wuss because he wouldn't approach, but INSTEAD she approached HIM!

Would you say in most cases a girl WOULD see the guy as a wuss if he was introduced like that?
i'm not surprised by the true nature of the original poster, given some of the posts he has made in the past about "looks being the be-all end-all" lol
 

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I mentioned to a friend that a lady at the bar we were at looked like a particular beautiful actress.
He went up and told her.
She beamed from ear to ear.
It was like insta-attraction.
 

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good for you, people who always try to hurt others always get it themselves, plus, NFC is right, use your knowledge of DJ for your own good and not evil thoughts and hurting others.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So who is hotter, you, or that other guy?



Either chick thinks he is hotter, or she wants to get you jelous. When he bangs her it wil hit your balls hard.. You realized you have a sh1tty quality you can work on.
 

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I've actually had this happen to me a number of time. I've been at the receiving end of the spectrum because I could not keep my mouth shut and my "friends" would go blabber away. The best way to play this off is the use of sarcasm. Be sarcastic with your responses.

"You think I'm hot?"
"Really!? Now who told you that? ;)"
"Oh haha! He always does that to girls he likes!"

Follow up with:
"So what's your name?"
"Anyway, why don't you sit down?"
-continue with a story or DHV or whatever the hell you guys do these days

Remember to keep similing and keep girls guessing on whether you really are interested in them or not. Never state it directly, or if you do, make sure it is sarcastic. Good luck fellas! =)
 

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Next time, you want a girl, tell her that YOU think she's hot!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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God_of_getting_layed

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Babnik said:
I did this to my friend now and I am pissed.

He was checking out a girl in a cafeteria and thought she was real hot and I was leaving so I went up to her and said "That guy right there thinks you are hot *wink*" and I THOUGHT that it would make her think he is a wuss because he wouldn't approach, but INSTEAD she approached HIM!

Would you say in most cases a girl WOULD see the guy as a wuss if he was introduced like that?
*clears throat*...

um, this is an example of why the logic of the DJ bible is sooo horribly wrong.

DJ bible=crap. basically, if you want to succeed with women, you almost have to do the opposite of what it says to do, beleive the opposite of what it says to beleive.
 

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God_of_getting_layed said:
*clears throat*...

um, this is an example of why the logic of the DJ bible is sooo horribly wrong.

DJ bible=crap. basically, if you want to succeed with women, you almost have to do the opposite of what it says to do, beleive the opposite of what it says to beleive.
and what´s that supposed to mean?
 

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ChrizZ said:
and what´s that supposed to mean?
I thought I already make my posts dumbed down enough for most of the low IQ people on this forum to understand, but I guess not.

Basically, in layman's terms, my posts means: this is proof the DJ bible is wrong most of the time, if not always.

DONT TRUST IT.

THey need to put a disclaimer at the top of the DJ bible about it's innacuracies.
 

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God_of_getting_layed said:
I thought I already make my posts dumbed down enough for most of the low IQ people on this forum to understand, but I guess not.

Basically, in layman's terms, my posts means: this is proof the DJ bible is wrong most of the time, if not always.

DONT TRUST IT.

THey need to put a disclaimer at the top of the DJ bible about it's innacuracies.
I see. So you are one of those guys that girls use as a doormat and takes them out to 300$ dinners since you said everyone should do the total opposite of what the bible teaches. You are talking a lot of sh!t for someone who hasn´t got anything to say.
 

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ChrizZ said:
I see. So you are one of those guys that girls use as a doormat and takes them out to 300$ dinners since you said everyone should do the total opposite of what the bible teaches. You are talking a lot of sh!t for someone who hasn´t got anything to say.
1. I in no way suggest letting a girl use you as a doormat or use you for money, or be her *****.

2. What I do suggest is that the DJ bible is horribly wrong. ITs sooo wrong, that your probably better off by simply doing the opposite of what it says to do.

So, mr. DJ bible lover, how do you explain the original poster's situation with DJ bible logic? according to the DJ bible, the chick should have actually been turned off, and avoided approaching the guy. IT seems the opposite has happened after the friend displayed his wussyness.. According to the DJ bible, women dont tolerate wussy behavior and its a turn off..according to the DJ bible.

So again, how do you explain this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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