"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Just want to give a shoutout to the SoSuave community. It's been 4 months since me and my ex broke up and since then I have been living like a king. Riding solo and getting most of the girls that I persued. That relationship lasted me 2 years and I was king simp during those 2 years. Now I feel as if I'm a true mack. Not taking any disrespect at all.

Here is some advice for some of you guys.

1. Read this forum and form your own core beliefs and stick to them.
2. Always spin plates. The more plates the better.
3. Don't be afraid to cold approach. It could easily be the next girl you smash.
4. Quit overanalyzing. It's not that serious.

It's September 3rd and I've already smashed 3 new girls in the past 3 days so I'm feeling pretty good.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree - especially #4 (Analysis Paralysis).

I think we need to get our hearts broken to build up the scar tissue enough to be a true DJ. It took me about 4 months to get over my ex also, but I'm finally back in the groove with a GF and women coming out of the woodwork as you now have. Now we're the ones flaking on dates.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Going through that relationship was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me. Everyone was telling me I was doing the wrong thing but I never listened to them. Now for the rest of my life I do have a better perspective of a different variety of things. It has been over 3 months and I've hooked up with 10 different girls. I even got a job and got my paper up and became president of my fraternity. Life is good now and my life hasn't been better then what it is now.

Don't get me wrong though I probably hate my ex with passion and I don't think I can ever forget the f*cked up sh&t that I went through.
 

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Yes, visiting this site should be at a minimum. Not an everyday thing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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