Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Just want to give a shoutout to the SoSuave community. It's been 4 months since me and my ex broke up and since then I have been living like a king. Riding solo and getting most of the girls that I persued. That relationship lasted me 2 years and I was king simp during those 2 years. Now I feel as if I'm a true mack. Not taking any disrespect at all.

Here is some advice for some of you guys.

1. Read this forum and form your own core beliefs and stick to them.
2. Always spin plates. The more plates the better.
3. Don't be afraid to cold approach. It could easily be the next girl you smash.
4. Quit overanalyzing. It's not that serious.

It's September 3rd and I've already smashed 3 new girls in the past 3 days so I'm feeling pretty good.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree - especially #4 (Analysis Paralysis).

I think we need to get our hearts broken to build up the scar tissue enough to be a true DJ. It took me about 4 months to get over my ex also, but I'm finally back in the groove with a GF and women coming out of the woodwork as you now have. Now we're the ones flaking on dates.
 

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Going through that relationship was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me. Everyone was telling me I was doing the wrong thing but I never listened to them. Now for the rest of my life I do have a better perspective of a different variety of things. It has been over 3 months and I've hooked up with 10 different girls. I even got a job and got my paper up and became president of my fraternity. Life is good now and my life hasn't been better then what it is now.

Don't get me wrong though I probably hate my ex with passion and I don't think I can ever forget the f*cked up sh&t that I went through.
 

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Yes, visiting this site should be at a minimum. Not an everyday thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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