"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Just want to give a shoutout to the SoSuave community. It's been 4 months since me and my ex broke up and since then I have been living like a king. Riding solo and getting most of the girls that I persued. That relationship lasted me 2 years and I was king simp during those 2 years. Now I feel as if I'm a true mack. Not taking any disrespect at all.

Here is some advice for some of you guys.

1. Read this forum and form your own core beliefs and stick to them.
2. Always spin plates. The more plates the better.
3. Don't be afraid to cold approach. It could easily be the next girl you smash.
4. Quit overanalyzing. It's not that serious.

It's September 3rd and I've already smashed 3 new girls in the past 3 days so I'm feeling pretty good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I agree - especially #4 (Analysis Paralysis).

I think we need to get our hearts broken to build up the scar tissue enough to be a true DJ. It took me about 4 months to get over my ex also, but I'm finally back in the groove with a GF and women coming out of the woodwork as you now have. Now we're the ones flaking on dates.
 

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Going through that relationship was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me. Everyone was telling me I was doing the wrong thing but I never listened to them. Now for the rest of my life I do have a better perspective of a different variety of things. It has been over 3 months and I've hooked up with 10 different girls. I even got a job and got my paper up and became president of my fraternity. Life is good now and my life hasn't been better then what it is now.

Don't get me wrong though I probably hate my ex with passion and I don't think I can ever forget the f*cked up sh&t that I went through.
 

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Yes, visiting this site should be at a minimum. Not an everyday thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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