"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks Sosuave...

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It's been a little over a year and a half since I've joined this site. Yet this place has given me a lot of good advice and guys like Igetit! have given me some awesome advice.

I honestly still haven't read the whole DJ Bible. As I just would read a little bit here or there and would go put things into action right away and I'm doing good as it is.

Just this past weekend I had a real cute chic, I don't like using numbers this and that to rate chics (all individual), let's just say every person on this site would nod-in-approval. Yet this babe A) Got me a room @ an extravagant hotel/casino B) Got me a very expensive buffet dinner

When I arrived at the hotel we messed around a good bit before her friends came, after they showed up we went to the bar for drinks.

She even offered to buy me drinks, yet I declined most of the time and I only bought her one. She also got us into a club no cover charge (20$ person wtf is that?!) Where we danced for many, many hours, guys were trying to snatch her up from me like seriously?. We were so sweaty by the end, she suggested we take a shower together, I obliged of course and I banged her on the wall, on the floor. (mind you she was just telling me a week or two ago about us not having sex for a long while, only having dated her for a month)

I'm not a great looking guy, just a little handsome you could say. I'm not rich by no means, I just know how to make a girl feel and I''m very comfortable with with my sexuality . I like to be outgoing and have fun, girls just come along for the ride! I have some friends looking up to me now, which is pretty funny as I was extremely shy through out most of my life.

Thanks Sosuave...this is only the beginning!!:box:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It can be done.
 
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congrats. :)

also, $20 cover charge is avg. here in Miami, FL. for all the clubs.
 
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Good for you dude. Hope one day I can get there too. And I agree with you that $20 cover is crazy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah thanks it's actually pretty funny @ work a buddy gave me an award for "Don Juan" of our company a few weeks ago. I had a good laugh as he has no idea I'm part of a site like this.

Here in Detroit average is 10$ and that's for pretty much any club... The place I went to is inside the Casino ...here's some pics http://www.facebook.com/photos.php?id=58823762755

I'm honestly not into the club scene that much, I like day game better. Regular stores, cafes and bar grill/restaurant type places. You meet higher quality girls that way. I like to dip my pen in the company ink a lot too, need to stop that though going to get me in trouble one day I swear.....lol
 
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CarlitosWay said:
I'm not a great looking guy, just a little handsome you could say.
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You're the FIRST person here I've seen here not claim they are good-looking or very good-looking when talking about their own looks. Sheesh. Thank you.
 
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You're the FIRST person here I've seen here not claim they are good-looking or very good-looking when talking about their own looks. Sheesh. Thank you.
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Are you saying every guy says they're good looking or "very good looking" in here or something? I mean I'm not butt ugly :crackup: Yet I kind of have that Spanish look going for me, so ok looks + Spanish thing. lol :D One time @ a club I had an old black granny tell me I was "gorgeous" and she was freaking on me for a little :p

I think I'm at the point though my confidence/profound presence takes a lot of girls off guard more than say my decent looks.
 
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