"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks Sosuave...

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CarlitosWay

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It's been a little over a year and a half since I've joined this site. Yet this place has given me a lot of good advice and guys like Igetit! have given me some awesome advice.

I honestly still haven't read the whole DJ Bible. As I just would read a little bit here or there and would go put things into action right away and I'm doing good as it is.

Just this past weekend I had a real cute chic, I don't like using numbers this and that to rate chics (all individual), let's just say every person on this site would nod-in-approval. Yet this babe A) Got me a room @ an extravagant hotel/casino B) Got me a very expensive buffet dinner

When I arrived at the hotel we messed around a good bit before her friends came, after they showed up we went to the bar for drinks.

She even offered to buy me drinks, yet I declined most of the time and I only bought her one. She also got us into a club no cover charge (20$ person wtf is that?!) Where we danced for many, many hours, guys were trying to snatch her up from me like seriously?. We were so sweaty by the end, she suggested we take a shower together, I obliged of course and I banged her on the wall, on the floor. (mind you she was just telling me a week or two ago about us not having sex for a long while, only having dated her for a month)

I'm not a great looking guy, just a little handsome you could say. I'm not rich by no means, I just know how to make a girl feel and I''m very comfortable with with my sexuality . I like to be outgoing and have fun, girls just come along for the ride! I have some friends looking up to me now, which is pretty funny as I was extremely shy through out most of my life.

Thanks Sosuave...this is only the beginning!!:box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It can be done.
 
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congrats. :)

also, $20 cover charge is avg. here in Miami, FL. for all the clubs.
 
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Good for you dude. Hope one day I can get there too. And I agree with you that $20 cover is crazy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah thanks it's actually pretty funny @ work a buddy gave me an award for "Don Juan" of our company a few weeks ago. I had a good laugh as he has no idea I'm part of a site like this.

Here in Detroit average is 10$ and that's for pretty much any club... The place I went to is inside the Casino ...here's some pics http://www.facebook.com/photos.php?id=58823762755

I'm honestly not into the club scene that much, I like day game better. Regular stores, cafes and bar grill/restaurant type places. You meet higher quality girls that way. I like to dip my pen in the company ink a lot too, need to stop that though going to get me in trouble one day I swear.....lol
 
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CarlitosWay said:
I'm not a great looking guy, just a little handsome you could say.
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You're the FIRST person here I've seen here not claim they are good-looking or very good-looking when talking about their own looks. Sheesh. Thank you.
 
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sageproduct said:
You're the FIRST person here I've seen here not claim they are good-looking or very good-looking when talking about their own looks. Sheesh. Thank you.
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Are you saying every guy says they're good looking or "very good looking" in here or something? I mean I'm not butt ugly :crackup: Yet I kind of have that Spanish look going for me, so ok looks + Spanish thing. lol :D One time @ a club I had an old black granny tell me I was "gorgeous" and she was freaking on me for a little :p

I think I'm at the point though my confidence/profound presence takes a lot of girls off guard more than say my decent looks.
 
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