"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thank yous from girl

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so recently this girl i met and chatting with, mention thank you 3 times in a short period, and i happen to throw a reply, ' let me count that, 1 2 3 thank yous.. should i be worried?/ '

hopefully i didnt come too straight forward..
--- now she is the type of girl i would like to be my gf...

its been 2 months that i have known her and got her number last month, she keep conversation going, but every time initiated by me.

so should i just move on or stick around for a while?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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devilkingx2

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kzar_kzar said:
so recently this girl i met and chatting with, mention thank you 3 times in a short period, and i happen to throw a reply, ' let me count that, 1 2 3 thank yous.. should i be worried?/ '

hopefully i didnt come too straight forward..
--- now she is the type of girl i would like to be my gf...

its been 2 months that i have known her and got her number last month, she keep conversation going, but every time initiated by me.

so should i just move on or stick around for a while?
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Bro you should've asked her out a month and a half ago
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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logicallefty

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When you get a number from a chick you have to strike while the iron is hot. I used to roll just like you did here and got the same result that you did, time and time again. Don't put your head in the sand over it. Just learn from your mistakes, and from folks here, and play it differently next time.
 
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