"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so recently this girl i met and chatting with, mention thank you 3 times in a short period, and i happen to throw a reply, ' let me count that, 1 2 3 thank yous.. should i be worried?/ '

hopefully i didnt come too straight forward..
--- now she is the type of girl i would like to be my gf...

its been 2 months that i have known her and got her number last month, she keep conversation going, but every time initiated by me.

so should i just move on or stick around for a while?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kzar_kzar said:
so recently this girl i met and chatting with, mention thank you 3 times in a short period, and i happen to throw a reply, ' let me count that, 1 2 3 thank yous.. should i be worried?/ '

hopefully i didnt come too straight forward..
--- now she is the type of girl i would like to be my gf...

its been 2 months that i have known her and got her number last month, she keep conversation going, but every time initiated by me.

so should i just move on or stick around for a while?
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Bro you should've asked her out a month and a half ago
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When you get a number from a chick you have to strike while the iron is hot. I used to roll just like you did here and got the same result that you did, time and time again. Don't put your head in the sand over it. Just learn from your mistakes, and from folks here, and play it differently next time.
 
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