"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thank yous from girl

kzar_kzar

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so recently this girl i met and chatting with, mention thank you 3 times in a short period, and i happen to throw a reply, ' let me count that, 1 2 3 thank yous.. should i be worried?/ '

hopefully i didnt come too straight forward..
--- now she is the type of girl i would like to be my gf...

its been 2 months that i have known her and got her number last month, she keep conversation going, but every time initiated by me.

so should i just move on or stick around for a while?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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devilkingx2

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so recently this girl i met and chatting with, mention thank you 3 times in a short period, and i happen to throw a reply, ' let me count that, 1 2 3 thank yous.. should i be worried?/ '

hopefully i didnt come too straight forward..
--- now she is the type of girl i would like to be my gf...

its been 2 months that i have known her and got her number last month, she keep conversation going, but every time initiated by me.

so should i just move on or stick around for a while?
Bro you should've asked her out a month and a half ago
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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logicallefty

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When you get a number from a chick you have to strike while the iron is hot. I used to roll just like you did here and got the same result that you did, time and time again. Don't put your head in the sand over it. Just learn from your mistakes, and from folks here, and play it differently next time.
 
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