"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thank yous from girl

kzar_kzar

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so recently this girl i met and chatting with, mention thank you 3 times in a short period, and i happen to throw a reply, ' let me count that, 1 2 3 thank yous.. should i be worried?/ '

hopefully i didnt come too straight forward..
--- now she is the type of girl i would like to be my gf...

its been 2 months that i have known her and got her number last month, she keep conversation going, but every time initiated by me.

so should i just move on or stick around for a while?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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devilkingx2

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so recently this girl i met and chatting with, mention thank you 3 times in a short period, and i happen to throw a reply, ' let me count that, 1 2 3 thank yous.. should i be worried?/ '

hopefully i didnt come too straight forward..
--- now she is the type of girl i would like to be my gf...

its been 2 months that i have known her and got her number last month, she keep conversation going, but every time initiated by me.

so should i just move on or stick around for a while?
Bro you should've asked her out a month and a half ago
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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logicallefty

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When you get a number from a chick you have to strike while the iron is hot. I used to roll just like you did here and got the same result that you did, time and time again. Don't put your head in the sand over it. Just learn from your mistakes, and from folks here, and play it differently next time.
 
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