Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dev

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I am a new member here and after reading the required material (DJ bible, DJ boot camp) I could only think one thought.

Why the hell didn't I find this place before?

This is an incredible resource on the internet. I think it is amazing that DJs don't mind volunteering their time to help out a few AFCs like myself. Thank you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do you consider yourself an 'AFC'?? And what are you going to do to change your condition??

Hint: change your mindset!! It wasn't a hint - it was the answer!!
 

Blue Phoenix

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AFC?

YEah. AFC = ignorance

The material you read here is gonna help you, so you stop being an AFC.

As they say, once you go through an experience, you're not the same man as you used to be.

To the better or worse, it depends on you!

Suffering comes from ignorance, most of the times.

Its expected to be hurt, but its part of the process!

AFC NO MORE!

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SealTeamSix

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change in mind set .. thats all there is to it.

1. Be active.
2. Be happy.
3. Be nice.
4. Be open.
5. Be Sexual.
6. Be confidence..


Now .. thats DJ i think ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Titus

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Welcome

Take great heed in what you read here. Some of what you read can do you good, and some great harm, if you do not know enough of yourself, your own wishes and own desires.
 
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