"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am a new member here and after reading the required material (DJ bible, DJ boot camp) I could only think one thought.

Why the hell didn't I find this place before?

This is an incredible resource on the internet. I think it is amazing that DJs don't mind volunteering their time to help out a few AFCs like myself. Thank you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PuertoRican_Lover

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Why do you consider yourself an 'AFC'?? And what are you going to do to change your condition??

Hint: change your mindset!! It wasn't a hint - it was the answer!!
 
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Blue Phoenix

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AFC?

YEah. AFC = ignorance

The material you read here is gonna help you, so you stop being an AFC.

As they say, once you go through an experience, you're not the same man as you used to be.

To the better or worse, it depends on you!

Suffering comes from ignorance, most of the times.

Its expected to be hurt, but its part of the process!

AFC NO MORE!

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SealTeamSix

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change in mind set .. thats all there is to it.

1. Be active.
2. Be happy.
3. Be nice.
4. Be open.
5. Be Sexual.
6. Be confidence..


Now .. thats DJ i think ...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Welcome

Take great heed in what you read here. Some of what you read can do you good, and some great harm, if you do not know enough of yourself, your own wishes and own desires.
 
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