Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I am a new member here and after reading the required material (DJ bible, DJ boot camp) I could only think one thought.

Why the hell didn't I find this place before?

This is an incredible resource on the internet. I think it is amazing that DJs don't mind volunteering their time to help out a few AFCs like myself. Thank you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PuertoRican_Lover

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Why do you consider yourself an 'AFC'?? And what are you going to do to change your condition??

Hint: change your mindset!! It wasn't a hint - it was the answer!!
 
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Blue Phoenix

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AFC?

YEah. AFC = ignorance

The material you read here is gonna help you, so you stop being an AFC.

As they say, once you go through an experience, you're not the same man as you used to be.

To the better or worse, it depends on you!

Suffering comes from ignorance, most of the times.

Its expected to be hurt, but its part of the process!

AFC NO MORE!

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change in mind set .. thats all there is to it.

1. Be active.
2. Be happy.
3. Be nice.
4. Be open.
5. Be Sexual.
6. Be confidence..


Now .. thats DJ i think ...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Welcome

Take great heed in what you read here. Some of what you read can do you good, and some great harm, if you do not know enough of yourself, your own wishes and own desires.
 
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