Thank You and Hello

[SgtSplacker]

Just wanted to thank all of the contributors to making this site. I recently came here because I had the wrong idea about how to express my affections for women. I just was not checking my emotion and was letting them run wild on purpose. I wanted to let the raw emotion of love control my actions and live my life governed by what I was feeling at the moment. I felt I was being true to myself and those around me. I just wanted to experience the visceral emotions of love in my life unchecked. And coming here made me understand that this is wrong. A man needs to control his emotions and not let his emotions control him. I am now thinking with my mind first and my heart second. And this is making me happy, and proud of myself. Honestly I was feeling a bit childish before. So Thank You! this is a great site for men. Dating can be tricky and it's very easy to make mistakes that may cost you a potential life changing relationship.

 

[Mike32ct]

Most, if not all, problems in a man's life are caused by not keeping his emotions in check.

It's very tempting to live a life ruled by your feelings and what feels good. But that is a one-way ticket to complete self-destruction. It will destroy your health, career/business, financial situation, relationships, family, etc.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I cant agree more Mike, I was allowing this to happen in my relationships because I thought that is what it was all about. But recently I have been dating someone who really has no control over her emotions and that sent me flying all over the place. I just had the frame of mind that to allow myself to feel all of these things was "living life". Well I still "live life" just a bit more composed and much happier.

 

[StevePUA]

No problem and goodbye.