"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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So you went ahead and asked her to the game anyway? Despite multiple advice against it? AND against your own inclinations? Sheesh...sandman6991 said:
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Then practice, practice, practice.
Then when you call up the next girl, speak clearly and with conviction. Smile when you're talking, she'll hear it. Use what you've written down, she won't see the paper.
I repeat get to know more girls do not get a oneitis, or you're in for slavery or a good old painfull dump. Do an action date, where you don't have to talk to much. (She doesn't need to know everything about you in one date -> action is the enemy of thought...)sandman6991 said:Jesus!!!!!!!!
I'm a stupid, stupid man. I just called. My first time calling a girl. No excuse at all. I blew it like Monica Lewinski.
- Get a grip man, your already overthinking it and you just met her, don't stop cold approaching women, do it today, cause this is getting into a oneitis anyway
Her: Hey
Me: Shay?
Her: Yeah
Me: It's ______
Her: Oh, hey!
Me: How's it going?
Her: Oh it's going ok
Me: That's good to hear...
Her: How's it going with you?
Me: It's going good!
Her: Cool!
Me: I've got a question for you here real quick...
Her: Haha...yeah
- think she's getting intrested into you or slightly is
Me: Are you a football fan
- never, EVER go on a viewing date, worst idea ever! You would try to be macho, and screw things up, or you'll be a puss and screw things up, eather way first dates are ALWAYse action dates...
Her: Yeah
Me: A Vols fan?
Her: What? *I guess she couldn't hear me...idfk*
Me: A Tennessee Vols fan?
Her: Oh, yeah
- she probebly couldn't care less...
Me: Well, get this. My friend and I usually go to the UT games, and he's going to be gone this weekend...would you like to come with me?
Her: Well...I don't know if i can. I may be going out of town this weekend
Me: Oh really..when?
Her: Maybe Friday night...
Me: Well...call me... (WRONG) or (VERY WRONG, no or) I'll call you later this week and maybe we can work something out (WRONG)
-just say: Ok no problem, I'll call you later; don't promis (you're giving her to much control, you're the guy leading not her) this week or whatever, best thing you can do now is call her like thursday or something cause she's expecting you, make her wait at least a bit...
Her: Okay
Me: See ya later
Her: Bye
I had a sh!t load of funny stuff to say, but I forgot it all when I called. I was going to bust on her for saying she was bad with names and then knowing who I am..and tons of other stuff...I get nervous on the phone...I don't use the phone...I should have texted...I shouldn't have been a moron when I called...I am a stupid, stupid man.(*sight... selfimage 0/10*)
-Don't make phone talks to long, make your "superb" jokes when you're on a date, at least there they will have a decent effect, phone calls are there to make the dates.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
2. You called and blew it but at least you had the balls to call. You learned from it and thats what counts. I've probably called and setup over 150 first dates in my day, probably more. I probably blew at least 30 of the calls by saying stupid stuff. I probably never repeated any of those 30 mistakes again though and now I nail it pretty much 99% of the time. Practice is everything.
sandman6991 said:
I'm just going to throw this out there, if you have a problem talkin to her on the phone....... you could just text her, it's not too weird, i mean you already called her. But ask her if she wants to go get some coffee. Because you can get to talk to her and get to know her more and get much more comfortable with her and yourself. I also noticed you said before that you had alot of funny things set up to say to her. Don't do that. I've tried that before , never try to practice or think of stuff before hand. Go with the flow of the conversation.
I hope this could help you.