this chick i really like at school was introduced to me yesterday last day of school, by her friend and i said hi and shook her hand i didn't say anything because i was nervous i don't know why i usually don't get nervous talking to chicks. now her friend gave me her cell number and now i don't know if should text her or not because we don't know each other that much. should i just forget about it? please help.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Texting this chick i need help
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I would just call her up first talk to her then you can worry about texting. Just keep telling yourself "I AM A PIMP". Call her be smooth, introduce yourself. Make small talk and ask for the date. Let us know how it goes.
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Just call her up and say "Hi this is ..... from ......"
Tell her that your friend gave you her number and you want to take her out and tell her she will have fun you promise. Then tell her to meet you somewhere.
I'm no expert not even close. Someone else help this kid out.
Tell her that your friend gave you her number and you want to take her out and tell her she will have fun you promise. Then tell her to meet you somewhere.
I'm no expert not even close. Someone else help this kid out.
iqqi
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Lol. Kid, how old are you? When did you get her number? If it was this week, then she hasn't forgotten who you are. What, are you unforgettable?
Also. If the girl's friend gave you the digits... the girl you like knows, and probably told her to... cuz she likes you!
Also. If the girl's friend gave you the digits... the girl you like knows, and probably told her to... cuz she likes you!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Oh man I had this happen to me back in my afc days, long story short i screwed it up by jumping at her command. id push-pull her, interact and hint that you mite be interested and then back off, until shes got the look of a ravenous wolf. then you make YOUR move.
Monkey
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The girl needs to know that her friend gave you her number. Calling her out of the blue is going to be a little creepy, especially if this girl doesn't have a good amount of interest back at you.
Try to run into this girl you like at school, it'll be easier to say hi now as you've already met her, so have a short chat then ask for her number yourself.
Try to run into this girl you like at school, it'll be easier to say hi now as you've already met her, so have a short chat then ask for her number yourself.
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I know this is easier said than done because I just made the same mistake and don't want to sound like a hypocrite, but just call her and expect her to respond well. If she asks where you got her number, tell her that her friend gave it to you and joke that she should probably have a talk with her friend about just handing out her number to random guys who didn't even ask for it.
I don't know. That's what I'd do. But take my advice with a grain of salt. I'm still here more to learn than to teach.
I don't know. That's what I'd do. But take my advice with a grain of salt. I'm still here more to learn than to teach.