"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Texting is Fun!

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You guys are missing the whole point of this thread! This thread is meant to show some guys here that texting is supposed to be fun! Yes I know that the end goal is for a date, then kiss and fvck etc.

Btw, if you haven't noticed, I've taken the lead in every conversation. I'm not trying to take her out every time I text her. I'm keeping it cool right now and just having some fun. Besides, I have other plates too so I'm in no rush. I'll keep you guys posted on updates!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You guys are missing the whole point of this thread! This thread is meant to show some guys here that texting is supposed to be fun! Yes I know that the end goal is for a date, then kiss and fvck etc.

Btw, if you haven't noticed, I've taken the lead in every conversation. I'm not trying to take her out every time I text her. I'm keeping it cool right now and just having some fun. Besides, I have other plates too so I'm in no rush. I'll keep you guys posted on updates!
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sorry, but I think you failed to get your point across, simply because that's not what I'd call fun text conversations.
 
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Now that is some fun texting!! So much fun. And having fun is what it's all about. Fun texting.
 
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Hilarious stuff, papa! :crackup:

I look forward to hearing how this story continues...
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fela Kuti said:
sorry, but I think you failed to get your point across, simply because that's not what I'd call fun text conversations.
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Please show us all some of your fun texting my friend! :rockon:
 
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Now THIS is how you text, folks!

Keep it short. Keep it flirty. And for the love of God, CLOSE! Either set up an outing, a time to fuck, etc.

If there are no tangible results to your texting, you're just wasting time playing "male girlfriend."

I'd +1 you my friend if I could...
 
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Now THIS is how you text, folks!

Keep it short. Keep it flirty. And for the love of God, CLOSE! Either set up an outing, a time to fuck, etc.

If there are no tangible results to your texting, you're just wasting time playing "male girlfriend."

I'd +1 you my friend if I could...
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Are you serious? nobody texts like that lol

He didn't even say anything, she's the one that initiated and said do you fvck good.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you serious? nobody texts like that lol

He didn't even say anything, she's the one that initiated and said do you fvck good.
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Admittedly, I didn't show any of the earlier stuff, where I had managed to get her from a chick who randomly added me on facebook (itself a possible sign of interest) through to her texting me up looking to fvck after she broke up with her boyfriend.

Don;t really care what the analysis of my text messages from then on is compared to people's preconceived ideas of what is considered "fun" - in this game, end results are all that count.
 
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I repeat.....


So have you guys gone out yet?

Enough texting, get to banging!
 
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Admittedly, I didn't show any of the earlier stuff, where I had managed to get her from a chick who randomly added me on facebook (itself a possible sign of interest) through to her texting me up looking to fvck after she broke up with her boyfriend.

Don;t really care what the analysis of my text messages from then on is compared to people's preconceived ideas of what is considered "fun" - in this game, end results are all that count.
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Yes end result counts, bang the girl, I know. But this thread is about fun texting.

It's like if someone asked you for your best direct approach story and you talk about how you met a girl online and you fvcked her. "end results are all that count" is not a valid argument in your defense.

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I repeat.....


So have you guys gone out yet?

Enough texting, get to banging!
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I haven't hit her up in a while. I'll try again this weekend see what happens! :rockon:
 
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I haven't hit her up in a while. I'll try again this weekend see what happens! :rockon:
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When you do cut to the chase and get a meet up set up, have fun physically being with her, not texting her. :rock:
 
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If there are no tangible results to your texting, you're just wasting time playing "male girlfriend."
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runner83 said:
in this game, end results are all that count.
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Enough texting, get to banging!
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:up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A good thing to do, that I do, is delete all the messages off your phone every week.

This reminds you that that is what they are, just meaningless words on a screen, and you shoulnd't place too much importance on them at all.

Don't fall into the mistake of measuring your success in messaging by how often she responds to your messages and whether she enjoys texting backwards and forwards.

Measure your success in messaging by how often you manage to escalate to meet up in person and bang her brains out.
 
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Great work OP. You guys should hang out soon and maintain the same fun, friendly attitude. I think you are doing well. Just make sure it's a cheap, fun date.
 
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