"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Texting is Fun!

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You guys are missing the whole point of this thread! This thread is meant to show some guys here that texting is supposed to be fun! Yes I know that the end goal is for a date, then kiss and fvck etc.

Btw, if you haven't noticed, I've taken the lead in every conversation. I'm not trying to take her out every time I text her. I'm keeping it cool right now and just having some fun. Besides, I have other plates too so I'm in no rush. I'll keep you guys posted on updates!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You guys are missing the whole point of this thread! This thread is meant to show some guys here that texting is supposed to be fun! Yes I know that the end goal is for a date, then kiss and fvck etc.

Btw, if you haven't noticed, I've taken the lead in every conversation. I'm not trying to take her out every time I text her. I'm keeping it cool right now and just having some fun. Besides, I have other plates too so I'm in no rush. I'll keep you guys posted on updates!
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sorry, but I think you failed to get your point across, simply because that's not what I'd call fun text conversations.
 
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Now that is some fun texting!! So much fun. And having fun is what it's all about. Fun texting.
 
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Hilarious stuff, papa! :crackup:

I look forward to hearing how this story continues...
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sorry, but I think you failed to get your point across, simply because that's not what I'd call fun text conversations.
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Please show us all some of your fun texting my friend! :rockon:
 
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Now THIS is how you text, folks!

Keep it short. Keep it flirty. And for the love of God, CLOSE! Either set up an outing, a time to fuck, etc.

If there are no tangible results to your texting, you're just wasting time playing "male girlfriend."

I'd +1 you my friend if I could...
 
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Now THIS is how you text, folks!

Keep it short. Keep it flirty. And for the love of God, CLOSE! Either set up an outing, a time to fuck, etc.

If there are no tangible results to your texting, you're just wasting time playing "male girlfriend."

I'd +1 you my friend if I could...
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Are you serious? nobody texts like that lol

He didn't even say anything, she's the one that initiated and said do you fvck good.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IamJosan said:
Are you serious? nobody texts like that lol

He didn't even say anything, she's the one that initiated and said do you fvck good.
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Admittedly, I didn't show any of the earlier stuff, where I had managed to get her from a chick who randomly added me on facebook (itself a possible sign of interest) through to her texting me up looking to fvck after she broke up with her boyfriend.

Don;t really care what the analysis of my text messages from then on is compared to people's preconceived ideas of what is considered "fun" - in this game, end results are all that count.
 
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I repeat.....


So have you guys gone out yet?

Enough texting, get to banging!
 
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Admittedly, I didn't show any of the earlier stuff, where I had managed to get her from a chick who randomly added me on facebook (itself a possible sign of interest) through to her texting me up looking to fvck after she broke up with her boyfriend.

Don;t really care what the analysis of my text messages from then on is compared to people's preconceived ideas of what is considered "fun" - in this game, end results are all that count.
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Yes end result counts, bang the girl, I know. But this thread is about fun texting.

It's like if someone asked you for your best direct approach story and you talk about how you met a girl online and you fvcked her. "end results are all that count" is not a valid argument in your defense.

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I repeat.....


So have you guys gone out yet?

Enough texting, get to banging!
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I haven't hit her up in a while. I'll try again this weekend see what happens! :rockon:
 
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I haven't hit her up in a while. I'll try again this weekend see what happens! :rockon:
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When you do cut to the chase and get a meet up set up, have fun physically being with her, not texting her. :rock:
 
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If there are no tangible results to your texting, you're just wasting time playing "male girlfriend."
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runner83 said:
in this game, end results are all that count.
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Enough texting, get to banging!
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:up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A good thing to do, that I do, is delete all the messages off your phone every week.

This reminds you that that is what they are, just meaningless words on a screen, and you shoulnd't place too much importance on them at all.

Don't fall into the mistake of measuring your success in messaging by how often she responds to your messages and whether she enjoys texting backwards and forwards.

Measure your success in messaging by how often you manage to escalate to meet up in person and bang her brains out.
 
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Great work OP. You guys should hang out soon and maintain the same fun, friendly attitude. I think you are doing well. Just make sure it's a cheap, fun date.
 
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