"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigcon79

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I've been dating this girl for three weeks now, only get to see each other on the weekends because I'm pretty busy during the weekdays with college, work, and the gym. Wondering how much I should be texting her during mon-thur? Or if I'm being a challenge by not texting her and only contacting her to set up future dates?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think you have to be more specific in your thread. Do you really date her or do you meet up with her during nightlife in the weekend?
 

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We met at a house party and i got her number. I asked her out for the following weekend and have been on three official dates so far, one each following weekend. If I don't text her within a few days she'll text me asking what's up. I'm wondering if I should be texting her or if I should not and have her text me? And should I be texting her during the weekdays to chitchat or just text her to be setting up dates?
 

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To me, don´t text her to chitchat. Only text her to set up a date again. Maybe a (short) phonecall to set something up.
What do you want? Make her your GF, or just bang her? Lately i was reading Darkdreams posts (see the DJ Bible). They give you the right mindset, i advice you to read them, they give you rest. It makes you think what YOU want. Keep yourself cool but keep her warm/hot.
 

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I want to bang her, have given thought of GF-ing her too. I'll check out Darkdreams posts.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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