"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've been dating this girl for three weeks now, only get to see each other on the weekends because I'm pretty busy during the weekdays with college, work, and the gym. Wondering how much I should be texting her during mon-thur? Or if I'm being a challenge by not texting her and only contacting her to set up future dates?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think you have to be more specific in your thread. Do you really date her or do you meet up with her during nightlife in the weekend?
 
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We met at a house party and i got her number. I asked her out for the following weekend and have been on three official dates so far, one each following weekend. If I don't text her within a few days she'll text me asking what's up. I'm wondering if I should be texting her or if I should not and have her text me? And should I be texting her during the weekdays to chitchat or just text her to be setting up dates?
 
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To me, don´t text her to chitchat. Only text her to set up a date again. Maybe a (short) phonecall to set something up.
What do you want? Make her your GF, or just bang her? Lately i was reading Darkdreams posts (see the DJ Bible). They give you the right mindset, i advice you to read them, they give you rest. It makes you think what YOU want. Keep yourself cool but keep her warm/hot.
 
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I want to bang her, have given thought of GF-ing her too. I'll check out Darkdreams posts.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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