"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

texting girls

B

bigcon79

New Member
Joined
Feb 28, 2012
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
I've been dating this girl for three weeks now, only get to see each other on the weekends because I'm pretty busy during the weekdays with college, work, and the gym. Wondering how much I should be texting her during mon-thur? Or if I'm being a challenge by not texting her and only contacting her to set up future dates?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

L

LittleBigOne

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 29, 2005
Messages
189
Reaction score
0
Location
Netherlands
I think you have to be more specific in your thread. Do you really date her or do you meet up with her during nightlife in the weekend?
 
B

bigcon79

New Member
Joined
Feb 28, 2012
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
We met at a house party and i got her number. I asked her out for the following weekend and have been on three official dates so far, one each following weekend. If I don't text her within a few days she'll text me asking what's up. I'm wondering if I should be texting her or if I should not and have her text me? And should I be texting her during the weekdays to chitchat or just text her to be setting up dates?
 
L

LittleBigOne

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 29, 2005
Messages
189
Reaction score
0
Location
Netherlands
To me, don´t text her to chitchat. Only text her to set up a date again. Maybe a (short) phonecall to set something up.
What do you want? Make her your GF, or just bang her? Lately i was reading Darkdreams posts (see the DJ Bible). They give you the right mindset, i advice you to read them, they give you rest. It makes you think what YOU want. Keep yourself cool but keep her warm/hot.
 
B

bigcon79

New Member
Joined
Feb 28, 2012
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
I want to bang her, have given thought of GF-ing her too. I'll check out Darkdreams posts.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top