"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigcon79

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I've been dating this girl for three weeks now, only get to see each other on the weekends because I'm pretty busy during the weekdays with college, work, and the gym. Wondering how much I should be texting her during mon-thur? Or if I'm being a challenge by not texting her and only contacting her to set up future dates?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LittleBigOne

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I think you have to be more specific in your thread. Do you really date her or do you meet up with her during nightlife in the weekend?
 

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We met at a house party and i got her number. I asked her out for the following weekend and have been on three official dates so far, one each following weekend. If I don't text her within a few days she'll text me asking what's up. I'm wondering if I should be texting her or if I should not and have her text me? And should I be texting her during the weekdays to chitchat or just text her to be setting up dates?
 

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To me, don´t text her to chitchat. Only text her to set up a date again. Maybe a (short) phonecall to set something up.
What do you want? Make her your GF, or just bang her? Lately i was reading Darkdreams posts (see the DJ Bible). They give you the right mindset, i advice you to read them, they give you rest. It makes you think what YOU want. Keep yourself cool but keep her warm/hot.
 

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I want to bang her, have given thought of GF-ing her too. I'll check out Darkdreams posts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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