"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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texting? calling? nothing?

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This girl who is really into me (and viceversa) and I spent a really good day on Thursday (great vibe, sexual tension, laughs and everything).
Like a fool that I was I failed to grab my balls and kiss her goodbye at the end of (or during) our meeting.

We now have a one week holiday from college, so she went home on Friday(80 miles away).
My guts indicate I should contact her, but since I'm not that good with words I have no idea how to proceed. (hell, if there's no action involved I fail miserably with everyone)
I would choose texting over calling her since less words are necessary :nervous:, but i have no idea what to say in either situation.

Should I just wait until Tuesday when we meet again at school? (we are classmates)

Thanks for the help you are about to give me, lol.

L.E: it's now when I see the similar thread. Joining mine to sargent158's would be good.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am in the same situation as you! I have a girl who wanted me but I didn't kiss her in the end of the night 3-4 times we've gone out... (Still learning to calibrate) And now I'm kinda up in the air. I left her a message yesterday and I am not planning on calling/texting her till she does.. Where I will NOT answer right away. I will call her back later that day though.

But for you, I would wait to see her till Tuesday bro! And then maybe after class, you can go somewhere together... If she does, then thats a clear indication she wants you to take her somewhere more private. Look for clues man, good luck!
 
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TEXTING IS GOOD TO BUILD MYSTERY....AND IS A GOOD INTRO FOR THE CALL, WOMEN DONT ALWAYS ANSWER THE PHONE BUT THEY DO READ TEXT MESSAGES.

texting doesnt replace calls, it just like an invitation, email, a prelude to conversation or a friendly thank you note for a great time.

Dont be fooled by those that say text flirting is a waste of time.......last year 8 billion text messages were sent. Its a powerful tool if you use it correctly and sparingly. Text to see if she is open to talk....call when u have a plan of action.
 
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