"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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texting? calling? nothing?

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This girl who is really into me (and viceversa) and I spent a really good day on Thursday (great vibe, sexual tension, laughs and everything).
Like a fool that I was I failed to grab my balls and kiss her goodbye at the end of (or during) our meeting.

We now have a one week holiday from college, so she went home on Friday(80 miles away).
My guts indicate I should contact her, but since I'm not that good with words I have no idea how to proceed. (hell, if there's no action involved I fail miserably with everyone)
I would choose texting over calling her since less words are necessary :nervous:, but i have no idea what to say in either situation.

Should I just wait until Tuesday when we meet again at school? (we are classmates)

Thanks for the help you are about to give me, lol.

L.E: it's now when I see the similar thread. Joining mine to sargent158's would be good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am in the same situation as you! I have a girl who wanted me but I didn't kiss her in the end of the night 3-4 times we've gone out... (Still learning to calibrate) And now I'm kinda up in the air. I left her a message yesterday and I am not planning on calling/texting her till she does.. Where I will NOT answer right away. I will call her back later that day though.

But for you, I would wait to see her till Tuesday bro! And then maybe after class, you can go somewhere together... If she does, then thats a clear indication she wants you to take her somewhere more private. Look for clues man, good luck!
 
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TEXTING IS GOOD TO BUILD MYSTERY....AND IS A GOOD INTRO FOR THE CALL, WOMEN DONT ALWAYS ANSWER THE PHONE BUT THEY DO READ TEXT MESSAGES.

texting doesnt replace calls, it just like an invitation, email, a prelude to conversation or a friendly thank you note for a great time.

Dont be fooled by those that say text flirting is a waste of time.......last year 8 billion text messages were sent. Its a powerful tool if you use it correctly and sparingly. Text to see if she is open to talk....call when u have a plan of action.
 
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