"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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texting? calling? nothing?

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This girl who is really into me (and viceversa) and I spent a really good day on Thursday (great vibe, sexual tension, laughs and everything).
Like a fool that I was I failed to grab my balls and kiss her goodbye at the end of (or during) our meeting.

We now have a one week holiday from college, so she went home on Friday(80 miles away).
My guts indicate I should contact her, but since I'm not that good with words I have no idea how to proceed. (hell, if there's no action involved I fail miserably with everyone)
I would choose texting over calling her since less words are necessary :nervous:, but i have no idea what to say in either situation.

Should I just wait until Tuesday when we meet again at school? (we are classmates)

Thanks for the help you are about to give me, lol.

L.E: it's now when I see the similar thread. Joining mine to sargent158's would be good.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am in the same situation as you! I have a girl who wanted me but I didn't kiss her in the end of the night 3-4 times we've gone out... (Still learning to calibrate) And now I'm kinda up in the air. I left her a message yesterday and I am not planning on calling/texting her till she does.. Where I will NOT answer right away. I will call her back later that day though.

But for you, I would wait to see her till Tuesday bro! And then maybe after class, you can go somewhere together... If she does, then thats a clear indication she wants you to take her somewhere more private. Look for clues man, good luck!
 
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TEXTING IS GOOD TO BUILD MYSTERY....AND IS A GOOD INTRO FOR THE CALL, WOMEN DONT ALWAYS ANSWER THE PHONE BUT THEY DO READ TEXT MESSAGES.

texting doesnt replace calls, it just like an invitation, email, a prelude to conversation or a friendly thank you note for a great time.

Dont be fooled by those that say text flirting is a waste of time.......last year 8 billion text messages were sent. Its a powerful tool if you use it correctly and sparingly. Text to see if she is open to talk....call when u have a plan of action.
 
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