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Text question - setting up date

Funk Daddy011

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Each of the few times recently I got a girls number, exchanged a few texts to open it, then go for setting up the date. I have been being assertive as prescribed here. "Meet me thursday night at x" etc. The one I just sent was "I'm out of town for work this week, lets get together next week". This was after a little funny banter. I had to open her, but I wasnt going to sit around and text her all week. She responded with "yes sir". I have been getting responses like this lately. Really reeks of passive aggressive annoyance at my assertiveness.

Is this a **** test? Should I respond? My curent plan would be to text her again on Sunday to set up the date next week.
 

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That approach is right, but he timing is premature. You need to get a conversation going first.

In this case wait a week and try to get a conversation going again, but better yet see her again at her work, etc.
 

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That approach is right, but he timing is premature. You need to get a conversation going first.

In this case wait a week and try to get a conversation going again, but better yet see her again at her work, etc.
I met her on Sat. Opened her with text on Monday. We've exchanged a few texts with long reply times yesterday and today. I cant really hang out until next Thur. I am trying to keep texting to a minimum and push for the date, but it is a week off. What do you do from here?
 

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I met her on Sat. Opened her with text on Monday. We've exchanged a few texts with long reply times yesterday and today. I cant really hang out until next Thur. I am trying to keep texting to a minimum and push for the date, but it is a week off. What do you do from here?
1) Wait
2) Try to see her in person
3) Ask her out if she doesn't reach out within a week
 
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