"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey guys. I will go straight to the point.

I am a flight attendant and i flew with this gorgeous girl from my crew.i was as well her boss on the flight.as soon as she saw me she started looking at me and smiling.after the service she sat next to me and started saying that she had a boyfriend from the same country as me.we could not talk for long as it was a busy flight.once in the hotel we went out for drinks.when she saw me out of my uniform her first words were "look at you" followed by her checking me out from top to bottom.i couldn't talk to her that night as the pilot did not leave her alone during the whole time so i backed off.on the second leg just before we land she said"take a picutre of us". I asked who is "us" as it was only me and her.she responded " you and me silly". After we took the pictures she said playfully "i am going to frame it and put it over my bed.as an AFC i did not know how to respond.just before we went our separate ways she turned around,looked at me,smiled palyfully and got into the cab.sooo here are my questions

1.since i did not build a proper connection during the flights how should i proceed from now on.i don't mind calling her and asking her out but because of the connection thingy i think it would be awkward.what do you think about whatsapp or facebook to make the first contact.
2. Do you think any of her comments mentioned above is indication of interest?
3.i really had a feeling she liked me.it was a weird sense.

So that's it guys.i like that girl a lot and any tips are greatly appreciated
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Reasons you should do nothing:

1. She has a boyfriend and EXPLICITLY TOLD YOU
2. You work together

Do not call or text. Suck it up and move on.
 
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There was a misunderstanding. She used to have a boyfriend from the same country.Not anymore.As far as i know she just ended a relationship and is single.And we work together but i might not see her ever again during work.Does that make sense?
 
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Yes but you still work together. I would recommend against it - because if she rejects you or if you end up dating and break up, it might be weird at work. And you HAVE to work together (unless one of you leaves the company).
 
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It will not be weird because the chances of working together with her again are slim to none.i do not see her everyday at work.So that issue is out of the way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She's recruiting you to be one of her new Orbiters. She's preparing you to be strung along and used. She will be more than happy when you happen to be working together because you will be more than happy to:

1) Take over some of her work duties
2) Keep her company
3) Give her shoulder massages
4) Talk to her at the bar and buy her drinks while she's waiting for other guys

If she was a good person she wouldn't lead you on. She knows what she's doing. Forget about her. When you see her again, ignore her and/or treat her l1ke sh1t.
 
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Forget about her .Don't sh! To where you eat- trust me its not worth it - from experience.

Joe.
 
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