"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys. I will go straight to the point.

I am a flight attendant and i flew with this gorgeous girl from my crew.i was as well her boss on the flight.as soon as she saw me she started looking at me and smiling.after the service she sat next to me and started saying that she had a boyfriend from the same country as me.we could not talk for long as it was a busy flight.once in the hotel we went out for drinks.when she saw me out of my uniform her first words were "look at you" followed by her checking me out from top to bottom.i couldn't talk to her that night as the pilot did not leave her alone during the whole time so i backed off.on the second leg just before we land she said"take a picutre of us". I asked who is "us" as it was only me and her.she responded " you and me silly". After we took the pictures she said playfully "i am going to frame it and put it over my bed.as an AFC i did not know how to respond.just before we went our separate ways she turned around,looked at me,smiled palyfully and got into the cab.sooo here are my questions

1.since i did not build a proper connection during the flights how should i proceed from now on.i don't mind calling her and asking her out but because of the connection thingy i think it would be awkward.what do you think about whatsapp or facebook to make the first contact.
2. Do you think any of her comments mentioned above is indication of interest?
3.i really had a feeling she liked me.it was a weird sense.

So that's it guys.i like that girl a lot and any tips are greatly appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Reasons you should do nothing:

1. She has a boyfriend and EXPLICITLY TOLD YOU
2. You work together

Do not call or text. Suck it up and move on.
 

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There was a misunderstanding. She used to have a boyfriend from the same country.Not anymore.As far as i know she just ended a relationship and is single.And we work together but i might not see her ever again during work.Does that make sense?
 

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Yes but you still work together. I would recommend against it - because if she rejects you or if you end up dating and break up, it might be weird at work. And you HAVE to work together (unless one of you leaves the company).
 

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It will not be weird because the chances of working together with her again are slim to none.i do not see her everyday at work.So that issue is out of the way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She's recruiting you to be one of her new Orbiters. She's preparing you to be strung along and used. She will be more than happy when you happen to be working together because you will be more than happy to:

1) Take over some of her work duties
2) Keep her company
3) Give her shoulder massages
4) Talk to her at the bar and buy her drinks while she's waiting for other guys

If she was a good person she wouldn't lead you on. She knows what she's doing. Forget about her. When you see her again, ignore her and/or treat her l1ke sh1t.
 
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Forget about her .Don't sh! To where you eat- trust me its not worth it - from experience.

Joe.
 
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