"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys. I will go straight to the point.

I am a flight attendant and i flew with this gorgeous girl from my crew.i was as well her boss on the flight.as soon as she saw me she started looking at me and smiling.after the service she sat next to me and started saying that she had a boyfriend from the same country as me.we could not talk for long as it was a busy flight.once in the hotel we went out for drinks.when she saw me out of my uniform her first words were "look at you" followed by her checking me out from top to bottom.i couldn't talk to her that night as the pilot did not leave her alone during the whole time so i backed off.on the second leg just before we land she said"take a picutre of us". I asked who is "us" as it was only me and her.she responded " you and me silly". After we took the pictures she said playfully "i am going to frame it and put it over my bed.as an AFC i did not know how to respond.just before we went our separate ways she turned around,looked at me,smiled palyfully and got into the cab.sooo here are my questions

1.since i did not build a proper connection during the flights how should i proceed from now on.i don't mind calling her and asking her out but because of the connection thingy i think it would be awkward.what do you think about whatsapp or facebook to make the first contact.
2. Do you think any of her comments mentioned above is indication of interest?
3.i really had a feeling she liked me.it was a weird sense.

So that's it guys.i like that girl a lot and any tips are greatly appreciated
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Reasons you should do nothing:

1. She has a boyfriend and EXPLICITLY TOLD YOU
2. You work together

Do not call or text. Suck it up and move on.
 

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There was a misunderstanding. She used to have a boyfriend from the same country.Not anymore.As far as i know she just ended a relationship and is single.And we work together but i might not see her ever again during work.Does that make sense?
 

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Yes but you still work together. I would recommend against it - because if she rejects you or if you end up dating and break up, it might be weird at work. And you HAVE to work together (unless one of you leaves the company).
 

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It will not be weird because the chances of working together with her again are slim to none.i do not see her everyday at work.So that issue is out of the way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's recruiting you to be one of her new Orbiters. She's preparing you to be strung along and used. She will be more than happy when you happen to be working together because you will be more than happy to:

1) Take over some of her work duties
2) Keep her company
3) Give her shoulder massages
4) Talk to her at the bar and buy her drinks while she's waiting for other guys

If she was a good person she wouldn't lead you on. She knows what she's doing. Forget about her. When you see her again, ignore her and/or treat her l1ke sh1t.
 
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Forget about her .Don't sh! To where you eat- trust me its not worth it - from experience.

Joe.
 
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